Note: During the burning were Brother and Sister watched the cremation process, store and were surprised to see how their father was burned to ashes. In the Netherlands, that fits not in the tradition and seems to be prohibited. Ethically......
Ethically is true that, in the Western view a human body can not be showed how to die, still dieing, or by incineration see carbonize, pulverize and 'no man more' will disappear. In Bali they find that a relief. Yes, and so do I, Sorry!